Society tends to normalize the idea of getting comfortable after marriage and ‘letting yourself go’ with the person you love. Whether you are busy putting in crazy hours at the office, shuttling kids to and from events or just not finding enough hours in the day to get it all done, it’s easy to allow your health to take a backseat. However, how good is this for you? Does loving your better half unconditionally mean you accept to see them run their health into the ground? Follow these Healthy Lifestyle Tips For Good Health After Marriage.
If you are looking for a way out of this rut, the solution may be working together. This could begin with just you and your partner or can be a family wide approach. The key is togetherness. When you work as a team, you will gain support and accountability to stay on track with a healthy lifestyle while limiting temptations that may have previously led you to fall off the wagon.
5 Tips For Families To Achieve A Healthy Lifestyle
Identify Your Goals
As your relationship and family dynamics evolve, you will, too. Whether you are struggling to navigate a food sensitivity, trying to lose weight or looking to reduce stress, your health needs to be just as much a priority as going to the dentist or showing up to work.
We tend to forget that how we treat our bodies ultimately decides at what capacity we can carry ourselves through life. The food you are choosing to fuel your body with, the lifestyle choices you make and the thoughts you have are all affecting your overall health.
Remember, it is not selfish to put your health first. It is necessary. It’s important to recognize your individual needs and openly share them with your partner.
2. Commit Together
This is the most crucial part. Too often, clients will share that one of their biggest obstacles is watching their partner or children indulge while they are trying to be “good”. As if it isn’t hard enough to pass up the refined sugar donuts in the staff room all day. The last thing you need is to come home and watch your partner eat a bag of chips while you’re trying really hard to stay on track.
The only way to overcome this is to create a household that supports the food choices you want to be making. One of the easiest things you can do is to plan a pantry clean out. As a family, decide what good quality foods you plan to restock it with.
When it comes to kids, this can be surprisingly easy. Kids only know what they are exposed to. The younger they begin to enjoy healthy eating, the more likely they will ask for it. Pre-packaged snacks may be convenient but chopped fruits, veggies, good quality cheeses, seeds and nuts are easy solutions that pack tons of health benefits. They’re good for mom and dad, too! For further reading, click here to discover “#Relationshipgoals”.
3. Meal Plan Together
At first, this may seem like work but it will soon become a routine that you’ll be thankful you started. You can invite your kids into this discussion as well. Develop a repertoire of easy meals and snacks that can be rotated throughout the week or month.
To start, consider what you already enjoy eating. Even if that answer is Mac & Cheese or chicken fingers. There are tons of recipes out there to make it healthy and enjoyable for the whole family. It is all about the small steps to start your journey.
4. Get Moving Together
This one is so important and easily attainable with a little creativity. You need to get your family up and moving. This doesn’t mean you need to sign up for a triathlon or drag your kids to the gym. Simply get outdoors! While you may be tempted to stick the kids in front of the TV and plop on the couch, a quick walk in your neighbourhood will do the whole family some good. Being active for at least 30 minutes a day is crucial to lower your risks of cardiovascular disease and metabolic syndrome.
We know you’ve heard this one. You need to communicate throughout your health journey. Identify what’s working, what isn’t and what’s next. Perhaps you didn’t love the kale smoothie your partner prepared for you – and that’s ok. What’s important is not to sub that kale smoothie for your old habits. Instead take the time to figure out a different healthy alternative. Click here for a mixed berry smoothie the whole family is sure to love!
Communicating your changing needs is the only way to get the best results out of your health journey. If you find you need more support making healthy choices, meal planning or identifying your specific dietary needs, consider working with a Holistic Nutritionist or Health Care Professional to help you attain your optimal health. Click here to connect with a health professional near you.
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Sha and her husband believe that working as a team to achieve optimal health is beneficial not only for their bodies, but for their relationship. They work with others to teach them that loving unconditionally does not mean being ok with watching your better half work themself sick, eat away their stress or lose their lust for life. Thriving together is all about loving each other enough to want the best for each other in health and life.